are we all just hurting eachother?

so i pretty much prob messed up my ex husband then he messed me up even more. then my ex bf pretty much re-messed me up. and of course my parents were the first to mess me up. alllll of this hurting was so unintentional i know but so when does it stop? why cant anyone of us get it right? i wonder how much ive messed up bee. i hope not as much as me. does anyone ever try to actually fix themselves? is anyone really "healthy"? i know i dont know anyone that isnt dyfuntional in one way or an other.


i remember when ignorance was bliss!